2. Maintain Your Appearance
Do you remember your first date with your spouse before you were married? Ladies took great pains to wear the right outfit and finest perfumes. Fellas washed their cars before the date and looked their absolute best.
Somewhere between the marriage vows and the second child, something happened. The same personal care you took before the marriage went out of the window. If that is the case, it is important to find your personal mojo again.
No one is saying that you should have a body of an Olympic athlete, but at least take time to look good. This includes getting a regular haircut, exercising, drinking water and wearing up-to-date clothing.
It is possibly true that your spouse loves you exactly as you are. This is not about love. You want your spouse to continuously be attracted to you to keep the romantic flames burning. It is important to always look your very best for your spouse and yourself.